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Making a Village Whole: Pembrokeshire, Wales
November 14, 2015 @ 9:30 am - 3:30 pm
Saturday Nov. 14th (9:30am-3:30pm) Caring for the Living and Carrying the Dead
Trefacwn Country House, Saint David’s, St Davids, Pembrokeshire SA62 6DP, Wales, United Kingdom
To learn more and to register, visit HOLY HIATUS
In a culture without much real ceremony, that doesn’t tolerate endings of any kind, it’s a necessary and proper thing that all of us learn about dying and about death. We must learn how to care for the dying people in our midst, and how to die when it is our turn, well before the time of being tested and told comes. This teaching is for people who will die, who are dying, and who love or care for those who will die. It is for those who wish to live deeply and to die well. It teaches the dying time as a place to learn our humanity and the noble, courageous skills of village-making for those we will not live to meet. Chief among these are the willingness to remember sorrow, to start with cultural poverty, to grieve together, and to gather the dead into your village.
Following his inspiring teaching events and screenings in Wales in 2014, Stephen Jenkinson will be back in UK November 2015 and will be offering two talks and two one day teaching events in Monmouth and Pembrokeshire with Holy Hiatus.
Saturday 7th November 9.30-3.30 – One day teaching at Bridges Community Centre, Drybridge House, Monmouth, Wales. Ticket Price: Early Bird: £65 (until 30th Sept) Full: £75 does not include refreshments, there is a cafe located within the building, and the venue is close to Monmouth town centre. Book Tickets
Friday 13th November 7-9 pm Evening Talk at Theatr Gwaun, Fishguard, Wales. Ticket Price: Full £11 Conc £9 – tickets are available via Theatr Gwaun website or box office 01348 873421
Saturday 14th November 9.30-3.30 – One day teaching at Trefacwn, Llanrhrian, Pembrokeshire, Wales. Ticket Price: Early Bird £70 (Until 30th Sept) Full £80 Includes lunches and hot drinks. Book Tickets
To learn more and to register, visit HOLY HIATUS
Die Wise – A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul, is Stephen Jenkinson’s new book about grief, and dying, and the great love of life. Published by North Atlantic Books. Griefwalker is a National Film Board of Canada feature documentary film, directed by Tim Wilson. It is a lyrical, poetic portrait of Stephen’s work with dying people.
Die Wise teaches the skills of dying, skills that have to be learned in the course of living deeply and well. Not a seven step coping strategy, not an out-clause for trauma or sorrow, Die Wise is for everyone who, hell or high water, is not going to pull off eternity after all. Dying is not the end of wisdom and wisdom not exhausted by dying. Dying could be and must be the fullest expression and incarnation of what you’ve learned by living. It’s a moral obligation to die well. If you love somebody, if you care about the world that’s to come after you, if you want somebody to be spared the lunacy of what you’ve seen, you’ve got to die wise. This evening begins to imagine a way of doing so.
About Stephen Jenkinson, MTS, MSW
spiritual activist, teacher, author
Stephen teaches internationally and is the creator and principal instructor of the Orphan Wisdom School, founded in 2010. With Master’s degrees from Harvard University (Theology) and the University of Toronto (Social Work), he is revolutionizing grief and dying in North America. Stephen is redefining what it means to live, and die well.
Apprenticed to a master storyteller, he has worked extensively with dying people and their families, is former programme director in a major Canadian hospital, former assistant professor in a prominent Canadian medical school, consultant to palliative care and hospice organizations and educator and advocate in the helping professions. He is also a sculptor, traditional canoe builder whose house won a Governor General’s Award for architecture.He is the author of Die Wise: A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul (2015), Homecoming: The Haiku Sessions – a live recorded teaching (2013), How it All Could Be: A work book for dying people and those who love them (2009), Angel and Executioner: Grief and the Love of Life – a live recorded teaching (2009), and Money and The Soul’s Desires: A Meditation (2002), and former contributing author to Palliative Care – Core Skills and Clinical Competencies (2007).
The Orphan Wisdom School is for anyone with a desire to be useful to those who will inherit an endangered and often dangerous world. It is for those who have an instinct and a desire to be an ancestor worthy of being claimed. It is for those wishing to learn something of the skills of grace in a graceless time, of mentorship and fierce and exemplary compassion. It is for elders in training.
Die Wise Video Trailer